Thanksgiving 2025 Planning Guide

Thanksgiving can be overwhelming. This Thanksgiving 2025 planning guide can help you navigate the holiday and reduce your stress so you can enjoy the day.

Note: This was originally written several years ago. I have shifted what we do for the day because I have always felt a bit uncomfortable with Thanksgiving as a Choctaw woman. We now celebrate an alternative holiday. You can read about Thanksgiving alternatives here on the site. These tips are still great for whatever holiday you are celebrating, but be mindful that Thanksgiving is a day not everyone enjoys.

As a kid, my family always had a big potluck Thanksgiving meal. Even when we had smaller Thanksgiving meals together, at least a few people were contributing dishes.

When I got married, that all changed. My husband doesn’t have a large family, and only his parents live nearby. I found myself cooking the whole Thanksgiving meal in a very small kitchen. Most years I cooked for at least two days before Thanksgiving, and I was up extremely early. Somehow, the turkey always took longer than I planned. It was a stressful time for me, to say the least.

All of this did teach me a lot about planning for Thanksgiving and staying organized. You really have no choice when you are cooking the whole meal yourself. Even if you aren’t doing it all, it helps to be organized, especially if hosting.

Thanksgiving 2025 Planning Guide

I’ve taken what I’ve learned in these years of cooking full Thanksgiving meals on my own and turned it into this easy-to-follow guide to help you have less stress and stay organized this Thanksgiving.

Planning Ahead

One of the biggest things I’ve learned is you have to plan ahead. Having a good plan in place will help keep you on track and prevent you from forgetting important things.

For several years now, I’ve created a Thanksgiving planner to help keep me on track. I used printables I found online and created some myself. After doing this for a while I wanted one planner that had everything I needed. I’m very excited to use it this year.

I also wanted to share this planner with you. It’s now available for purchase here on the website. It’s undated, so you can use it year after year, and it’s sent to your inbox as soon as you buy it, so you can use it right away.

Getting my Thanksgiving planner set up is always first on my list of things to do. It becomes my brain during busy times. I recommend you also keep any recipes you are going to use in plastic sheet protectors in the same binder. Having everything together in one place really helps make things easier.

How to Plan Thanksgiving Dinner

A potluck-style meal is a great way to keep things a bit simpler. Having a guest list in your planner with a place to keep track of the dishes they are bringing is very helpful.

You can also use the website Perfect Potluck to create a signup sheet so guests can see what dishes still need to be claimed. It makes it really easy for the host and guests.

If a potluck-style meal isn’t possible, keep it simple. This is something I always struggle with. There are so many amazing dishes out there, and I grew up in a large family with tons of options at Thanksgiving. That’s great for a potluck, but when doing it yourself, don’t try to make five different side dishes and a dozen desserts.

Talk to your guests about their favorites and stick to those. For us, it’s always turkey, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, cranberry sauce, rolls, and a dessert. It’s still a ton of food, and everyone is always happy with their choices.

Have a Schedule

It’s important to have a schedule in place. If you are hosting, you will need to schedule your time even more. Having a list of what you need to do and when you need to do it will really help you stay on track. I have a host cheat sheet I keep in my Thanksgiving planner that helps me a lot.

It’s also a good idea to schedule when you plan to cook things, hosting or not. This will help you make sure things end up in the oven when they need to in order to be finished in time. This is something I’ve always had in my Thanksgiving planner, it’s far better than the sticky notes I used to use!

Keep the Thanksgiving Meal Simple

I talked about keeping the menu simple but it’s also a good idea to keep the day itself simple. What’s important is that everyone gets to spend time together and enjoy some yummy food. It doesn’t need to be fancy.

Prep what you can in advance

Many dishes can be made ahead of time or at least prepped. I like to make my rolls, cranberry sauce, and desserts ahead of time. It frees up a lot of time and they are just as delicious when made ahead.

Even if a dish can’t fully be made ahead you can get some prep work out of the way. Chop up veggies, have the dish prepared, and ready for the oven. Any steps that can be done ahead will save you precious time on Thanksgiving.

It’s also okay to take some shortcuts. Even if you want to stick with natural meals, places like Whole Foods have really good pre-made dishes.

Related Resource: Dishes You Can Make Ahead for Thanksgiving

Don’t wait until Thanksgiving to try new recipes

Pinterest makes it really tempting to try all of these new fancy dishes but that could equal disaster if you wait until Thanksgiving to try them. Have a trial run before the day to make sure you like the dish and you have the kinks worked out.

Deep clean your house now

Don’t put off that deep cleaning until the week of Thanksgiving. Do it now and just keep up with it by following some daily cleaning habits until Thanksgiving. No one wants to be trying to cook and clean their house at the same time.

Want more tips for having an organized Thanksgiving? Sign up below for my Organized Thanksgiving e-course. 

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